tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post6672920502965992337..comments2024-03-27T20:48:39.389-04:00Comments on [Birth Mother] First Mother Forum: A Daughter's Guilt Comes to the ForefrontLorraine Duskyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285341379272250245noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-56996235680371832932009-03-01T15:53:00.000-05:002009-03-01T15:53:00.000-05:00Lorraine,I love your discussion of what to call yo...Lorraine,<BR/>I love your discussion of what to call you, specifically the reference to it being one thing under the adoptee's control.<BR/><BR/>Great post!Being Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18191598836451286017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-25283705515070644152009-02-28T20:47:00.000-05:002009-02-28T20:47:00.000-05:00Lorraine,How sad that your daughter had to feel th...Lorraine,<BR/><BR/>How sad that your daughter had to feel the way she did guilty for having a good time without her adoptives.<BR/><BR/>And this was a good reunion where both families, knew of each other, and talked. Imagine those who don't? <BR/><BR/>Adoptee's aren't allowed to be who they are because there are always conditions and expectations from the moment of birth to fit in with a group of strangers.<BR/><BR/>I can't imagine living like that but that's what adoptee's do all their lives. <BR/><BR/>GaleAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com