tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post6733764312037178918..comments2024-03-27T20:48:39.389-04:00Comments on [Birth Mother] First Mother Forum: In Plain Sight**** Gets Adoption Reunion RightLorraine Duskyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285341379272250245noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-23399236803103655392015-08-18T19:45:49.339-04:002015-08-18T19:45:49.339-04:00Rosi, I am so sorry you have having this trouble. ...Rosi, I am so sorry you have having this trouble. But this is a very old post--from 5 years ago--and no one will see it. PLEASE GO TO THE CURRENT POST --click on First Mother Forum, that will take you to the current post..and repost your comment. You will get some responses.I am sorry I cannot respond more fully myself right now. <br /><br />http://www.firstmotherforum.com/2010/06/in-plain-sight-gets-adoption-reunion.html<br />Lorraine Duskyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18285341379272250245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-11339873335002270362015-08-18T17:00:50.482-04:002015-08-18T17:00:50.482-04:00My name is Rosy, I come from Russia and i'm an...My name is Rosy, I come from Russia and i'm an adoptee i was 6 months when i was adopted with with my sister-twins, two months ago I found my mother, she is Uzbekistan, my father died and he was of Russian nationality. <br />I found my family through an agency, my mother I found her through a social network, I posted an ad writing her name .... then his neighbor read my ad and said he knows my mother, so he called her .... <br />She immediately wanted to talk to me and hear my voice, but I did not call because I had no money, then I gave the number to the agency because the agency sent her my photos and a letter I had written to her. <br />After a few days she asked to a friend to add me on a Russian social network, because she does not have a computer in her home, so her friend wrote me that my mother wanted to talk to me via skype. he wrote for her: <>. <br />At 8 calls via Skype I never responded, I only called once but the call lasted five seconds after that I knocked off the call. <br />after I wrote via whatsapp this friend told her that i wanted to speak again with her , but I never responded .... <br />her friend removed fromme the list of friends, my mother did not contact me anymore, I began to have obsessions, I think every single minute of her, I think of his voice when he said: << allo, allo, Galina! >> (Galina was my name). <br />i think of what she feel to me, how she feels, she might have fears, I feel that she doesn't think of me anymore .... <br />What fears do you have you mothers? do you have fears? how did you feel when your daughter has called you? last week her friend visited my profile on the social network ,i do not know if maybe it was my mother ask to see my profile ... <br />i want to see her via Skype, but something stopped me .... Why do I have to contact her when she did not want to talk to me? when she don't contact me? <br />Have you experienced the same emotions? are u afraid if your child does not contact you? <br />do u worry as all mothers do? <br />i'm obsessed with her, I always look at her picture, I wonder what she thinks of my behavior, i am stressed by it all, because I feel rejected ... <br />reunion is not easy.... i want to talk with a birth mom..<br />im on fb https://www.facebook.com/rosy.divaioAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12695395674555785913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-16607005125652226082010-06-17T16:02:31.027-04:002010-06-17T16:02:31.027-04:00I've seen this show before and it is really go...I've seen this show before and it is really good. USA has alot of great shows (and a few that aren't so great). Monk (my favorite show) used to air on this station and interestingly, the finale was about Adoption. Sort of. Trudy (Monk's late wife whose death by a car bomb caused him to develop severe OCD) had a baby in college and was told that her baby died, which was a lie. She was then put up for Closed Adoption To make a two hour episode short, at the end Monk finds out about Trudy's off spring and having a "part of" Trudy there with him again, begins to heal him. In this series, Monk hated to be touched and touch other people, but he gives Trudy's daughter a big bear hug as soon as he meets her, He had no problem seeing her as Trudy's child.....I wasn't sure what Google Babies is so I ah, googled it, LoL and you should see the review for it Lorraine-they should of called it FrankenBabies instead...<br />"Sex between a man and a woman is not anymore the only way to make a baby. This is a scary documentary showing how adults ignore a children's right to know their mother and father. The UN Convention on the Rights of the Child states that all children have a right to know their parents.<br />Wealthy persons in the West can now buy an egg from an egg donor in the United States or another Western country, get sperm from another donor or himself and implant the embryo into a surrogate mother in India. These people don't want their Caucasian genes to be mixed with a poor woman from India, but as surrogate mothers they are good enough....<br />One of the most scary examples in the film was a 57-year-old divorcée and childless woman who wanted a baby. Of course she was too old to have her own eggs, and too old to have a uterus for her own baby. She did not have a man either, but that was no problem for Doron, the manager of the child production company in Israel. Doron is able to provide a sperm donor, egg donor and a surrogate mother, and the baby is produced and delivered in a timely manner to the customer without a complicated pregnancy.<br />It is a human right for children to know their parents, but it is not a human right for adults to buy a baby"The Improper Adopteehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04460201280334904431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-36948437139035119322010-06-17T13:12:27.006-04:002010-06-17T13:12:27.006-04:00Lorraine - So glad you posted this here about last...Lorraine - So glad you posted this here about last night's episode "The Born Identity." In Plain Sight is one of my all-time favorite TV shows. Love it, love it, love it!!!<br /><br />However, when the show took a turn towards adoption last night (especially when Mary went off about what they would find if they looked for his mother), I told my husband, "I think I am going to have to turn this off tonight." <br /><br />But then Marshall Mann said what he did about the primal wound and I went, "I think they get it, honey. The writers know about the primal wound. I think they just might get it."<br /><br />And they did.<br /><br />I started crying during the scene where the dad learns that Walter (the character in WITSEC) is his son. My big, bad, Green Beret/Special Ops soldier husband put his arms around me and with tears in his own eyes said, "I am so sorry Gorgeous. I hope she doesn't wait to long to come find you." He was pretty upset that Walter might have to leave his new-found family again to go into the witness protection program and kept saying, "There has to be a way that they can keep him and his dad together! There has to be a way!!!" <br /><br />As tidy of an ending as it was, I was thrilled to see the writers really did have it figured out. I don't know if I could have handled having one of my favorite TV characters (Mary) turn out to be such a dolt in this area and it was refreshing to see her attitudes change as the episode progressed.<br /><br />M.M.http://letterstomsfeverfew.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-56424385662841441032010-06-17T12:12:40.417-04:002010-06-17T12:12:40.417-04:00But damn, Carolina, I really wanted that pat [happ...But damn, Carolina, I really wanted that pat [happy] ending. Sometimes you gotta have the fairy tale and though they seem not to come to firstmotherforum, I know some reunions that have worked out amazingly well. <br /><br />Camping with his dad didn't seem that much of a stretch. When my daughter first came to NY to visit, we spent three days exploring Manhattan from the top of the Statue of Liberty to the Circle Line to a funky Village restaurant.Lorraine Duskyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18285341379272250245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-33758196036254516492010-06-17T11:22:49.271-04:002010-06-17T11:22:49.271-04:00Wow. Just finished watching the show, and it got ...Wow. Just finished watching the show, and it got me. "In Plain Sight" is one of my favorite shows anyway, and this was a very interesting episode for someone who, like me, is adopted. I think they hit it pretty well from my standpoint. I felt the same as the "witness," the adoptee who had a tough time with life after leaving his adoptive family and wondering where he really came from. He wasn't angry he was relinquished, and neither was I (or at least I like to believe I'm not, although there was an incident once...a story for another time). He was excited to hear about physical resemblances, something that seems so minor to people not affected by adoption but is so important to those of us who were. I could go on, but it was a good show and somebody either has some experience or did his or her homework. A little too pat, especially at the ending, but what can you do when you only have an hour (only 40+ minutes after commercials)? The show is on the USA Network and will be rerun several times over the next few days.Carolina Whitefreezenoreply@blogger.com