tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post7387920681966641831..comments2024-03-27T20:48:39.389-04:00Comments on [Birth Mother] First Mother Forum: Adoption by Gentle Care: FMF's pick for the 2014 Demon in Adoption awardLorraine Duskyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285341379272250245noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-30149208018463344712014-10-28T00:33:54.281-04:002014-10-28T00:33:54.281-04:00Carri my heart breaks for you and your family. I t...Carri my heart breaks for you and your family. I too pray that Cam is soon in your arms. To AGC it is just a pissing contest and they want to reassure PAP's that there is no risk in adopting from their agency. Sign up and pay for a baby and they will provide a "forever" child. Not providing a customer with a baby is bad business for them so they fight. They really need to go straight to hell and I hope all the bad publicity regarding their evil deeds shuts them down. I voted for them. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-6047626920879411202014-10-27T15:11:50.741-04:002014-10-27T15:11:50.741-04:00Julia, they will NOT get away with this. God's...Julia, they will NOT get away with this. God's protecting Cam as I fight to bring him home. He will come home and AGC will suffer the consequences for their horrible actions.Carrilove17https://www.blogger.com/profile/01077151018426368832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-19042932116232435042014-10-27T08:14:27.884-04:002014-10-27T08:14:27.884-04:00How is AGC getting away with this? This is beyond ...How is AGC getting away with this? This is beyond belief. Time is marching on and Cam is still in limbo for NO REASON. How is this allowed to continue?Julia Emilynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-80105246055902187492014-10-26T19:46:22.054-04:002014-10-26T19:46:22.054-04:00Voted for AGC! I don't understand how they ca...Voted for AGC! I don't understand how they can keep baby Camden "in limbo" the way they have. How can these people sleep at night?!?!? GIVE HIM BACK TO HIS MOTHER!!<br /><br />Still pulling for you Carri! ((((((((HUGS))))))))A Second Momnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-66339991727869018752014-10-26T16:16:55.576-04:002014-10-26T16:16:55.576-04:00Thanks for posting the link - I voted. Those of u...Thanks for posting the link - I voted. Those of us whose children were taken by adoption support your efforts Carri. My heart goes out to you, Cam, and his extended real family. This is such an awful event that it's hard to even believe that it exists here in this country. Gailnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-41026277742631453852014-10-26T16:03:48.759-04:002014-10-26T16:03:48.759-04:00Carri,
Every time I read your story, even after so...Carri,<br />Every time I read your story, even after so many times of hearing about it, my heart aches that your son is still being kept from you. At least the prospective APs did the right thing. I totally regretted signing a couple hours after doing so, and I wonder what the APs would have done if I had told them I changed my mind and refused to hand him over. I am pretty sure that the adoption agency would have reacted in the same way as AGC--thrown their weight around to enforce the legality of my signature on a TPR. And I don't know, but my best guess is that my son's APs probably considered him theirs by the time I gave birth to him, and would've dismissed my pleas. How anyone can live with themselves after taking a child from a willing parent is beyond me, though.<br /><br />We all could have been in very similar situations to you, Carri. Your story exemplifies what is wrong with adoption and what needs to be CHANGED, now!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-68036304463145958212014-10-26T11:50:24.416-04:002014-10-26T11:50:24.416-04:00Thank you and everyone for the support for Cam. Th...Thank you and everyone for the support for Cam. This has surely been a nightmare but nothing will stop us from getting my son back.<br />True, the first family that had my son should be commended. They were victims too and they did the right thing. They wanted me to have my son back. It is adoption by gèntle care who in turn chose to hurt my innocent baby by keeping him from me for months now, playing some sort of game with his life and injuring him psychologically along the way. <br />The fact this world exists and has existed blows my mind. But my promise to my Cam and my promise to all who have been so horrendously hurt by such an ugly industry let alone specifically this agency, I am never going to stop telling the truth and I will never stop until my son is home, this sick world is exposed, and laws, etc change so no one else's child can be used as a commodity in a sick game of 'who owns the baby', like my son has been. Where is my son? What are they thinking? No one thinks this acceptable, NOONE. This is disgusting and as Camden's mother, I'm beyond angry and my fight doesn't end ever. <br />God bless you all for the support, this award is very fitting. A drop in the bucket to what is coming. Carrilove17https://www.blogger.com/profile/01077151018426368832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-74459313039398737032014-10-26T09:14:45.869-04:002014-10-26T09:14:45.869-04:00My vote is in. Thanks for the link!My vote is in. Thanks for the link!Julia Emilynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-77322062021130066302014-10-26T08:42:24.814-04:002014-10-26T08:42:24.814-04:00COME ON, PEOPLE VOTE! This link will take you rig...COME ON, PEOPLE VOTE! This link will take you right there...even if you don't vote for AGC, speak up and let the numbers show that you are out there!@<br /><br /> <b> <a href="http://poundpuplegacy.org/node/73990" rel="nofollow">Eighth Annual Demons in Adoption Award</a></b><br />Lorraine Duskyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18285341379272250245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-38853008272808791502014-10-25T15:26:18.976-04:002014-10-25T15:26:18.976-04:00See.... I get a lot of my news from Twitter and th...See.... I get a lot of my news from Twitter and then Facebook. I was under the impression there was a possible adoptive couple still involved. Maybe some of the people talking about this case have it mixed up with Sonya, which was another disaster. Camden should go home to his mother, end of story.<br /><br />Thanks, Robin.<br />I said once before how my first taste of something being wrong with adoption was the case of the identical triplets who were split up. But earlier there was Baby Lenore, back in 1971, I believe. Everyone sided with the adopters who fled with the child to another state. No one was thinking anguished first mother or about what was best for Lenore. She was adopted, and adopted she remains. And really nothing has changed in the world of big money adoption since then. Julia Emilynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-81347867784942426962014-10-25T13:21:04.191-04:002014-10-25T13:21:04.191-04:00Julia Emily wrote:"The parents that wanted to...Julia Emily wrote:"The parents that wanted to adopt this child are proving themselves to be the most miserable people...just like the Capobiancos. But yet....the Capos won. "<br /><br />The couple who originally planned to adopt Camden chose to back out of the adoption when they learned that the natural mother had changed her mind and wanted to raise her son. They have not acted like the Crapobiancos at all. In fact, they have done the ethical thing and have been the polar opposite of the Capos. The couple who originally planned to have Camden be a member of their family are to be commended not condemned.<br />Robinnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-74649379271656510932014-10-25T03:28:59.619-04:002014-10-25T03:28:59.619-04:00This whole thing that has been going on with AGC i...This whole thing that has been going on with AGC is a disgrace. I do not see why the baby is not returned to his mother. The fighting and mud-slinging that is taking place on Facebook over this is not to be believed. It is extremely discouraging to those of us who want to see adoption laws changed, and families preserved rather than babies sold to the highest bidder. The parents that wanted to adopt this child are proving themselves to be the most miserable people...just like the Capobiancos. But yet....the Capos won. <br /><br />Many times when I comment on Facebook over things like this, and try to show the "other" side of adoption, no one wants to hear it. This country LOVES adoption. Happy little babies being sold to people who want to "build a family." When I try to tell these people how an actual adoptee feels, they argue with me. Then they block me. How convenient. How easy. Just take away the adoptee's voice, as usual.<br /><br />Adoption reform can not happen in this climate. Somehow the non-adopted population has to be educated. It's an impossible situation, and very discouraging.Julia Emilynoreply@blogger.com