tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post7815186765099329035..comments2024-03-14T17:59:30.786-04:00Comments on [Birth Mother] First Mother Forum: What are the happy birth moms celebrating?Lorraine Duskyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285341379272250245noreply@blogger.comBlogger61125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-88972579203577444842012-11-18T08:39:00.687-05:002012-11-18T08:39:00.687-05:00COMMENTS TO THIS POST ARE CLOSED; Please direct yo...COMMENTS TO THIS POST ARE CLOSED; Please direct your comments to the latest post, which publishes Tyler's comment in toto and responds to it. <br /><br /><a href="http://www.firstmotherforum.com/2012/11/tyler-of-16-and-pregnant-tells-fmf-off_17.html?showComment=1353244825704#c3889644678835701932" rel="nofollow">Tyler of 16 and Pregnant Tells FMF Off! </a>Lorraine Duskyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18285341379272250245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-78520502079027876402012-11-18T07:40:24.773-05:002012-11-18T07:40:24.773-05:00@Sadforyou
Spare us the sob story, puhleezze.
T...@Sadforyou<br /><br />Spare us the sob story, puhleezze. <br /><br />The only person who is making you feel "less than a woman" is YOU. You are coming to a first mother blog to wine and cry about your infertility? I suppose that you have not read the blog, as we discuss the gut wrenching pain of losing our children to adoption; not being responsible for the infertility of complete strangers.<br /><br />To you and all of the other infertiles of this world, your infertility is NOT OUR PROBLEM, never has been, never will be~ kind of how when we want to know about our children when they are in the hands of adopters and they kick us to the curb. NOT THEIR PROBLEM, right? The double standard is quite sickening. <br /><br />It is no one's duty to provide anyone with their infant just because they cannot conceive. I truly believe that most women who adopt have some sick need to punish the natural mothers of the children they covet for their infertility. That has been my experience as a natural mother, anyway and I do not believe I am alone. <br /><br />So let me get this straight; we are supposed to take on your infertilty, have compassion and empathy for your sad lot in life of not being able to have your "own" child, but most women who adopt have not one ounce of compassion or empathy for the women who are suffering without their children, while they gained from that suffering? I don't think so. <br /><br />By the way, the "gift" of a child? Our children are not "gifts" for anyone. They belong with their mothers and natural families, not strangers who have some delusion of thinking they deserve someone else's child more then their own families. <br /><br />Accept your fate in life and deal with it, instead of causing more injustice in this world. There are plenty of things in the world I want that I can't have. I don't expect anyone to give me theirs and never would... <br /><br />Yes, very "sad" indeed... Lisanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-28372174067372477902012-11-18T02:12:25.619-05:002012-11-18T02:12:25.619-05:00Yes, perhaps the decision was made with "good...Yes, perhaps the decision was made with "good intent." Wasn't that the case with most birthparents? But it's what he and Catelynn are so strongly PROMOTING and making money off of...other vulnerable expectant moms are being mislead. I seriously doubt they even realize they're doing it. One day they will...like lambs to the slaughter. And p.s. it's not OUR responsibility to give the "infertiles" a chance at parenthood. NOT MY PROBLEMAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-39000205299611747922012-11-18T01:46:47.025-05:002012-11-18T01:46:47.025-05:00Can't we all agree that Tyler and Catelynn mad...Can't we all agree that Tyler and Catelynn made their decision with good intent? And if anything, Carly has more people in this world that love her? Now, get off their backs and let's get on with our lives.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-57520504545424814572012-11-17T20:27:48.725-05:002012-11-17T20:27:48.725-05:00i am one of the "infertiles" as one of y...i am one of the "infertiles" as one of you so lovingly called it. Thank you. I appreciate being again made fun of and made to feel less of a woman, by another woman. That is very kind of you. it sounds as if the burden of being pregnant, carrying that life and then making any other decision about it was very hard on you. I am sorry you don't suffer my problem. Then you wouldn't be so angry and bitter would you? You wouldn't feel jealous or hurt or wonder what you ever did in your life to never be able to feel a child move inside you or to give a name to or wonder how to take care of. Your life would be so much better if you hadn't gotten pregnant at all wouldn't it? Because all of us "infertiles" want is to snatch that baby away from you and create a family of our own and at least TRY to be happy, all we want is to take away your child and cause you endless pain; is that right? by the way i am a second generation adoptee, my mother was adopted, and had me as a teen, and then i too was adopted, by my grandparents. my mom was adopted in the 60s and me in the 80s after i was a bit older.so i know BOTH sides of the fence..in fact, i can see ALL OF IT; from birth mom's, to adoptee's to the infertile menace with claws preying on other stupid girls who can't keep their legs shut or who were horribly raped. so i don't think ANY OF YOU can see the landscape quite as i can. i would give anything to be given the gift of my own child, and i cannot afford to adopt. so i am stuck. shaking my head at all of you. you all make me very sad.sadforyounoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-16832015056288088672012-11-17T19:28:43.832-05:002012-11-17T19:28:43.832-05:00@Athena:
Did Tyler and Caitlyn not have their liv...@Athena:<br /><br />Did Tyler and Caitlyn not have their lives documented on NATIONAL television? How can you say none of us know the story when we all witnessed first hand what happened?<br /><br />As a mother who was duped out of her own child with a fraudulent open adoption that was slammed shut after just a few years, watching this was gut wrenching and triggering, to say the least. To say that we as mothers who have been thorough something so similar, abet not on a national stage, have no right to comment on this when we KNOW how they were manipulated by Bethany "christian" Services is way off base. I lived it. I know. Believe me. I also know what is down the very long hard road for these kids and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy, because like I have said, I lived it. I still live it and I always will. It is a life sentence of ambiguous grief and loss. The losses are too many to write here, but missing out on YOUR child while others gain from your suffering is horrendous. <br /><br />Harsh, perhaps, but the truth is not always rainbows and sunshine, as so many TRULY uninformed people will have you believe. If all the people out there who are slamming this blog have lived this nightmare, I could see them putting their two cents in, but they have not. Who are THEY, instead of who are WE, to speak of this? <br /><br />Tyler, open your mind. If not now, you will one day and the truth is not going to be pretty...Lisanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-41997368970549841802012-11-17T18:45:03.817-05:002012-11-17T18:45:03.817-05:00I'm sorry Tyler - you may have made an "a...I'm sorry Tyler - you may have made an "adoption plan" but that "plan" included you giving up / surrendering / terminating your rights to your daughter, and your daughters legal rights to her biological family and lineage. "Give up" is the perfect description because it is real.<br /><br />What I am completely against is the fact that you, her mother, her adoptive parents, and the agency you worked with - have ALL denied your daughter the right to own HER story. She is the one who will have to live with every tom, dick, and harry, knowing about her life. Why wasn't her privacy your utmost concern? WHY? She was the only one in the adoption who had no choice - and yet it is HER PRIVACY that has been compromised the most - from day one - she will never be allowed to live as just a person - always the adoptee wherever she goes. If you were all so concerned with what was best for her - why didn't what she will deal with throughout her life because you sought publicity factor in?<br /><br />As to getting upset over being featured by Lorraine or Jane - YOU chose that. You made that decision - not Lorraine, not Jane, YOU.<br /><br />No one should be promoting the creation of adoptees. Adoption should always be the very last option considered. The rammifications are too great to the one adopted. You may not want to hear that, but being adopted is hard. It is hard to understand why you weren't good enough to fight for. <br /><br />You are far too early in your journey to understand, but don't dismiss the words of those older and wiser who have gone before you...things haven't changed that much...as far as I know grief is grief and there is no cure.<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-42293044922911286732012-11-17T18:29:38.046-05:002012-11-17T18:29:38.046-05:00Tyler, I imagine that it must be hard to have any ...Tyler, I imagine that it must be hard to have any part of your very personal journey in the public arena. It means that your portrayal as a loving, brave, and sacrificing parent will be challenged by people with different views and experiences. <br /><br />Sadly, it also means that your education about the potential consequences of your choices will be public, too. If you were promised openness and support, I hope the promises were sincere and that you find what you need to sustain you in the difficult years ahead.<br /><br />Adoption is promoted in our culture as being in the best interests of the child. You made an adoption plan because you "did all the research" and became convinced that your daughter is better off with adoptive parents. This IS about Carly, right?<br /><br />Since she had no voice, no say at all in this arrangement, I am curious to hear what you learned in your research about the real life experiences of adopted persons who CAN speak for themselves.<br /><br />How many adoptees did you speak with personally, read about, and hear about? How many adoptee-focused studies and reports did you analyse before feeling qualified to make this choice for another human being?<br /><br />At this point, Tyler, it really does not matter. Does it? The deed is done. In truth, only time will tell if you have done right by your daughter and the people who love her. <br /><br />For now, I am inclined to agree with Lorraine. You have been snookered. Further, I think the harm you are doing to yourself and others by promoting adoption is myopic, narrow-minded, self-serving... and dangerous.<br /><br />I hope you will consider this bigger picture, Tyler. Question everything, and do not be misled by people who will pursue their own agendas at your expense.Alicehttp://www.allexperts.com/ep/1467-79971/Adoption-Issues/Alice-Allen-Rev-ULC.htmnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-47966237922715801932012-11-17T15:14:00.155-05:002012-11-17T15:14:00.155-05:00I'd be pretty defensive too if someone constan...I'd be pretty defensive too if someone constantly wrote about my life and misrepresented it because of what they saw on a TV show. Jane has consistently acted like she was an expert in Tyler and Catelynn's lives because of what she's seen on TV. If I were Tyler, I'd be pretty angry too. I gave up a baby at 15 after a brutal rape and my home life was a lot like Tyler and Catelynn's. I don't regret not subjecting my child to the kind of life I had. Why can't everyone decide their own narratives to their own stories without ya'll jumping down everyone's throats because it doesn't match your own experience?Athenanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-50765337895887469332012-11-17T15:11:06.565-05:002012-11-17T15:11:06.565-05:00I guess abortion is the option or maybe we
should...I guess abortion is the option or maybe we<br /> should advocate pregnant teen suicide. Does anyone here understand that a minimum wage job barely covers bills much less anything else! I say all of you wonderful kind and educated people actually lobby for adoption reform instead of knocking down two people who made a decision and stuck by it. The strip clubs and bars are filled with single moms just trying to get by. Obviously no decision is easy how can it beI so easy to spew vile scum at two young adults who are trying to change their destiny. Catelyn said she very likely wouldn't have finished school much less went to college would you have happily supported her via food stamps or cash assistance would anyone have stepped up and babysat while they worked or attended school? You don't like what decision the kids make..HELP a teen choose different ...you are working against your own interests by condemning them. Do any of you fine upstanding citizens offer free child care to a teen parent I doubt it! Does anyone go to the free clinics and LISTEN to the scared girls/ couples probably not. Its easy for you to judge people for taking responsibility for their actions and trying to not let that ruin their lives(like some of you) . I challenge you to make a positive change in the world... I wake $20 you wont even try. Try to have a good life Im sure someone loves you so go hug them!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-74158894829623975162012-11-17T11:58:21.270-05:002012-11-17T11:58:21.270-05:00This is sad... so much ignorance... In a month wh...This is sad... so much ignorance... In a month where people are supposed to be learning about adoption and foster care, they are busy buying, selling, defending sellers and buyers - of HUMAN BEINGS....<br /><br />To the adoptees that claim they are okay - if you are so damn fine with it, what are you doing reading here?Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05815710859859029536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-42793785111998508282012-11-17T11:51:48.436-05:002012-11-17T11:51:48.436-05:00Amanda,
Yes, Tyler and Catelynn are not always--or...Amanda,<br />Yes, Tyler and Catelynn are not always--or ever really--the happy faces of adoption, as I wrote in <a href="http://www.firstmotherforum.com/2012/07/catelynn-and-tyler-still-grieving-over.html" rel="nofollow">Catelynn and Tyler--still grieving over the loss of their daughter</a>. Nothing is sadder than watching them insist they've done the right thing while tears roll down their faces. <br /><br />While they can tell themselves as Dawn the adoption agent put it, they "made the selfless decision to let go," these words will ring hollow in a few years. <br /><br />They will learn, as all birth parents learn eventually, that the pain of losing a child does not go away. Yes their adoring fans--and those who benefit from adoption--can call them heroes, but the truth is Catelynn and Tyler aren't there for their baby. She is dependent on the kindness of strangers.<br /><br />Certainly the publicity they've received -- Tyler has almost rock star status -- helps compensate for their loss. Too soon, the fame will fade and they will be left with a charm bracelet and "what ifs" for the rest of their life.Jane Edwardshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09715622112694146946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-60951138116070741572012-11-17T11:30:33.291-05:002012-11-17T11:30:33.291-05:00I just want to respond to people who think that ad...I just want to respond to people who think that adoption is such a wonderful institution. I am an adoptee, not a birth mother. I have never known my first family, and I doubt I ever will. I was born during the "baby snatching" era in the 70's.<br /><br />Adoption isn't beautiful.<br /><br />From personal experience, it is a constant source of confusion in the back of your mind. Who am I? Where did I come from? Why did they not love me? And no matter how many people tell you how you are supposed to feel, it doesn't help. There are always questions until it becomes this roar that you can't think over anymore.<br /><br />Yes, I've thought about suicide. Yes, I have intimacy issues. Abandonment issues. Problems with feeling emotions...<br /><br />And my adoptive parents were NOT the sweet loving parents that every birth mother hopes will raise their child.<br /> <br />Given the recent stories of adoptive parents and abuse of the children they adopt, you have to wonder just how much psychological testing is involved when screening potential adoptive parents. Is there any? There certainly wasn't when my adoption was being finalized, and it doesn't seem that anything has improved in thirty years.<br /><br />Wake up, people. This adoption racket is NOT about what is best for the child. It is about money. Who has it. Who wants a baby bad enough to pay for it. THAT is what adoption is REALLY about anymore.Kristina Allennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-64441769803141758882012-11-17T11:17:02.263-05:002012-11-17T11:17:02.263-05:00I love how this baby broker Dawn has the words &qu...I love how this baby broker Dawn has the words "planned, parameters and purpose" in bold throughout her drivel, adoption propaganda note...This woman sickens me.<br /><br />https://www.facebook.com/notes/dawn-amann-baker/three-ps-to-1st-post-adoptive-meeting-with-birth-parents-purpose-plan-parameters/10151319848869575<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-75994898238839811842012-11-17T10:52:24.870-05:002012-11-17T10:52:24.870-05:00@anoymous 10:14 AM
Idiot? You mean yourself, corr...@anoymous 10:14 AM<br /><br />Idiot? You mean yourself, correct? I think mothers who have lived the nightmare of adoption are most definitely qualified to speak about adoption. As I stated before, if adoption is so wonderful, offer up your own flesh and blood and come back here and tell us how 'wunnerful' it is and by the way, it is NO ONE'S DUTY to provide the infertiles of this world with a baby. <br /><br />Your idiotic logic that all children who are adoption would have lived 'horrible' lives is a fallacy. Most women who lose their children to adoption would have been good mothers to their children, had they given themselves the chance. Most women who lose their children to adoption are young and vulnerable, NOT child abusing animals.<br /><br />You may want to do a little "research" of your own, 'lady', and learn how to compose a coherent sentence while your at it... Mom422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-37490223460463675942012-11-17T10:14:41.293-05:002012-11-17T10:14:41.293-05:00https://www.facebook.com/dawnmbake
Awwww.... she ...https://www.facebook.com/dawnmbake<br /><br />Awwww.... she is Facebook friends with her "clients". She has to make sure they tow the line, right?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-25441316049283249482012-11-17T10:14:04.832-05:002012-11-17T10:14:04.832-05:00lady your an idiot! adoption is a wonder thing. g...lady your an idiot! adoption is a wonder thing. giving someone who is unable to have a child the best gift in the world. so i guess you think its ok for kids to be raising kids in horrible situations? having a baby is hard and you think a teenager could do better than an adult who has been wanting a child forever and cant have one. most adoptive children are grateful they were given a better life i don't know where u get your information lady not every situation is is like yours. maybe you need to do some researchAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-26849453440171397172012-11-17T10:12:40.245-05:002012-11-17T10:12:40.245-05:00Catelyn and Tyler did what they had to do. Clearly...Catelyn and Tyler did what they had to do. Clearly<br />You never paid any attention to their show. Did you<br />Not watch any of their home life? Catelyns mom<br />And Tyler's dad were in a terrible abusive relationship. <br />They knew that by raising Carly she would <br />Be exposed to this. They made an amazing choice<br />And if you actually knew what you were talking about<br />You would agree. Put yourself in their shoes,<br />And I promIse you would have made the same decision. <br />This arrival you wrote is crap, get your facts straight lady. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-29550999141978770312012-11-17T10:04:45.370-05:002012-11-17T10:04:45.370-05:00As an ADOPTEE I am truly offended by this article ...As an ADOPTEE I am truly offended by this article as well!!! My adoption was a closed adoption and I was part of a family that after adopting me they had a son (who would be a non-adopted child) and I have had the most amazing life!!! I found out when I was 5 years old that I was adopted and I grew up just fine! I never had emotional issues or any drug abuse problems or anything else! I also have a Uncle that was adopted by my grandfather when he was 3 because his birth father wasn't a very great man and he was the most outstanding man I have ever known!!! I met my birth mother 2 years ago when I was 20 and it has been amazing! We have either face to face contact a lot since she lives about 15 minutes away and we talk on the phone daily! She has 2 children and a step child and they are the most wonderful blessings in my life! I have no hard feelings and I am blessed to have had someone who was so selfless and loving to place me in a better home so that I would be able to have a mother and a father who could financially provide for me and give me everything I could want! She was 15 and my birth father and his family was no where to be found when it came to me! She had an amazing family behind her who I have also had the pleasure of bringing into my life and even though they were there she didn't want me to have less than I deserved! She didn't want me to have to live in her baggage and have to deal with the things my birth father and his family had done! So when you sit here and say how you "closed-adoption" mothers feel you can't hardly group you all together! My birth mother is content and happy with her decision and I am as well! As well are a lot of other birth mothers I'm sure! I am truly sorry about your daughter but blaming her suicide on adoption is asinine! You are looking for an excuse and you may never find one! Stop blaming it on adoption because some people may not always handle their adoption experience well but that is not the only reason that happens! There were more problems there that led to that decision! I truly hope other moms who are trying to decide on adoption do not make their decision not to based on this ignorant blog! Adoption may not be for everyone but I know a lot of people who have truly benefited from it!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-37499893037143306752012-11-17T09:43:45.305-05:002012-11-17T09:43:45.305-05:00Tyler, for someone so at "peace" with yo...Tyler, for someone so at "peace" with your decision to "PLACE" your daughter for adoption, you sure are defensive. <br /><br />Caitlyn, for you to want to have a "career" as an "adoption counselor" so other young vulnerable women can live a life ambiguous grief and loss (and that of their children) is despicable. You should be ashamed of yourself. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-71125658305511912732012-11-17T09:40:18.099-05:002012-11-17T09:40:18.099-05:00Aaaand...cue the Tyler Fan Club trolls. They'v...Aaaand...cue the Tyler Fan Club trolls. They've found your blog and have brought forth the pitchforks and torches. Tyler, my heart breaks for you because, sweetie...you are wrong, not Lorraine. You are simply too young and too fresh in the loss of your daughter to truly understand what you've done. You need the long lens of years of experience and hindsight to comprehend the consequences of your actions. There are literal portions of your higher brain that haven't finished developing. So jump down off of your high horse for a moment and resist the urge to comment on a deeply personal topic to you on the everyone-can-see-it interwebs. It doesn't speak well for you as a man and a father. You should be grieving privately and stay out of the limelight. You chose instead to make this whole chunk of your life public; those of us in the adoption community see it, analyze it against years of experience, data and evidence, and yes, write about it. It will be commented upon. Those are the breaks.<br /><br />I am, by the way an adult Intercountry adopted person (Ireland-US), and the mother of a daughter relinquished in PA in 1978. Both closed, coerced; reunited with both my mum and daughter. I have been an adoption activist since Jesus wore knee pants and possess a lens so long I can see your house from here, Tyler. It's a lifelong experience -- for you both, for your daughter. Hindsight and retrospection will have you typing a whole different story here one day. <br /><br />Haters can say what they want, but they can't refute years of history, hard evidence and what we know is an ongoing legacy in the name of secrecy, deception and the almighty dollar. <br /><br />"Adoption Loss is the only trauma in the world where the victims are expected by the whole of society to be grateful"<br />— The Reverend Keith C. Griffith, MBE <br /><br />Terrific blogpost, Lorraine.mtsteedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03117493440116582297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-32858462676868776792012-11-17T09:40:15.376-05:002012-11-17T09:40:15.376-05:00Wow. Tyler sure is angry and bitter. And beyond de...Wow. Tyler sure is angry and bitter. And beyond defensive. Maybe he's already starting to realize the negative consequences of his actions and can't bear to be called out on them?Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02855792602589905860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-83407555720436034122012-11-17T09:37:01.084-05:002012-11-17T09:37:01.084-05:00Obviously some of the readers here are not aware t...Obviously some of the readers here are not aware that I relinquished my daughter to be adopted--<i>I am a birth mother myself</i>--found her when she was 15, and had a relationship with her for more than a quarter of a century. Adoption was not the only issue in her life, as she had epilepsy. She committed suicide in 2007. Both adoption and epilepsy are factors in some suicides. <br /><br />Yes, times have changed since I relinquished my daughter, to the extent that only one percent of the babies that might be considered for adoption--as Carly was--are actually given up. You may have made an "adoption plan," and done the research before you went to Bethany, as you say, but to most adoptees, as they age, "adoption plan" reads emotionally as <i>abandoned by my parents.</i>I do not wish you or Catelynn ill, but I am sorry that you have turned into spokespeople for adoption, and Bethany. While you are writing about your wise and measured and loving decision, we get emails from distraught and depressed women who relinquished under pressure and would do anything to have their children back. <br /><br />And you do seem to be unaware that a great many, if not most, adoptions that start out as "open" end up closed. Thank you for clarifying exactly how your adoption plan for Carly is set up, but as you affirm, Brandon and Theresa can close the adoption whenever they want. <br /><br /> I will post a more thorough response later today.Lorraine Duskyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18285341379272250245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-2324324465758530012012-11-17T09:27:52.117-05:002012-11-17T09:27:52.117-05:00@Kristin:
"Anyone who places their child wit...@Kristin:<br /><br />"Anyone who places their child with an adopted family gives those parents the most amazing blessing"<br /><br />It is no one's duty to provide the infertiles of this world with her infant. It is not an "amazing blessing". It is tragic to lose your child due to temporary life circumstances. Mom422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-574300303008890516.post-38200113725866447472012-11-17T09:23:38.696-05:002012-11-17T09:23:38.696-05:00WOW! I just read this:
https://www.facebook.com/t...WOW! I just read this:<br /><br />https://www.facebook.com/tyler.baltierra.39/posts/413961068669976<br /><br />Let me tell you something, Tyler, Caitlyn and all the other people who get off to calling this woman, her blog and the commenters here "ignorant". Let's see how you feel a few years down the line when you realize the repercussions of what you have done; which is permanently lose your daughter to a baby broker who gives not one rats behind about either of you. Your baby broker friend cared only about the bottom line, procuring your infant for adoption at a very high price for her paying customers. Make no mistake. You raked on six figures having your lives and that of your daughter EXPLOITED for the masses on national T.V, (which would have enabled you to provide more than what your daughter needed) and you want to call us, who have LIVED the nightmare of adoption "IGNORANT"? Perhaps you should look in the mirror if you want to see "ignorant". <br /><br />Moreover, Caitlyn and Tyler, as a mother of open adoption fraud, let's see how you feel when the couple (whatever their real names are) make off with your daughter after you become of an inconvenience and/ or a threat to them. You are too busy kissing their asses right now, as it widely apparent, (which is quite disgusting, honestly), but you will live to regret being their puppet on a string for a few crumbs about your daughter. Let's also see how you feel if and when they stop communicating with you and you don't know if she is dead or alive. Those people don't care about you. They wanted your daughter so they could run off and live in fantasy land, "as if born to them" delusion. You are sadly mistaken if you think they want you around in any way, shape or form and they probably cannot stand having to send you any updates; and only do because you were all on a national TV show and don't want to be exposed for bogus open adoption promises. <br /><br />Had MTV paid me six figures to be on some exploitative stupid reality show 20 some odd years ago just to give my child away for ratings, I would have taken my child and run like hell. It is only a matter of time before you see how you were duped. Please feel free to come back here and call all of us "old miserable women" ignorant, then. <br /><br />For all of you other people commenting, why don't YOU offer up one of your children then come back here and tell us how fucking WONDERFUL it is, while you proceed to sit behind your computer screens and make nasty comments about those of us who HAVE lived this nightmare. Sounds pretty 'ignorant' to me.... Mom422noreply@blogger.com