' [Birth Mother] First Mother Forum: Carlynne Hershberger
Showing posts with label Carlynne Hershberger. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Carlynne Hershberger. Show all posts

Sunday, January 26, 2014

Lost Daughters: Strong, brave essays written from the heart

Lorraine
Lost Daughters: Writing Adoption from a Place of Empowerment and Peace, is a tough book for mothers who relinquished because whatever we may have told ourselves about the “good” reasons to let our children be adopted, these poignant and sad essays belie that with the sheer force of a body blow. I found myself with tears in my eyes as soon as I started reading, and they didn't totally dry up until long after the last page.

Taken in one gulp these writers remind us that being adopted is the singular aspect of their lives out of which everything else flows—just as it is the opposite side of the coin is for first mothers like myself: birthdays, family trees, motherhood, familiar traits, loss.