' [Birth Mother] First Mother Forum: avoiding adoption for your baby
Showing posts with label avoiding adoption for your baby. Show all posts
Showing posts with label avoiding adoption for your baby. Show all posts

Friday, July 25, 2014

If you're uncertain about adoption, keep your baby.

Jane
We just received a comment from an expectant mother trying to decide about adoption. She writes:
"I'm Nolee and I'm 22 yo. I'm 4 months pregnant now and most days I think adoption is the best option, that my baby will be better without me, that my baby will have a better life NOT because a social worker told me but because I told myself this, I'm sure this is the best way to go.. until I reached this forum and specially the comments here and now I don't know what to do. I'm not prepare to raise a child in any level, financially, emotionally and as much as I love this baby I feel keeping him/her it's gonna hurt both of us. Now I'm so confused. Now I'm even thinking that adoption is the wrong